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Jezra Kaye
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2 Truths and 7 Tips for Becoming a Great Public Speaker (Yes, You!)

Speaking in public is one of the best ways to promote your business. Don’t rule out this strategy because you’re not a "great" public speaker—yet!
Written Sep 28, 2008, read 783 times since then.

 

One of the best ways we small business owners can attract new customers is by sharing our expertise with audiences—whether the topic is graphic design, employee "upskilling" or how to bake a perfect cake. And it's not hard to find places to speak, because everyone from the Chamber of Commerce to your local garden club needs exciting content for their meetings.

Yet many small business owners rule out this strategy, thinking that only the already-great need apply. And that's too bad, because the truth is...

Truth #1: You don't need to be Tony Robbins or Oprah Winfrey to be a successful public speaker. All you need is passion for your topic, respect for your audience and a willingness to do the work. Good speakers are made, not born! And you've already started developing your "public speaking" skills.

Truth #2: Every time you network, talk to prospects or take a client to lunch, you're building the same skill set that speakers use to talk to larger audiences. In each case, you're forming a bond with your listener, identifying his or her needs, and showing how your business will meet them. Believe it or not, these are the same steps that noted public speakers take to motivate, inform and inspire people. They form a bond with the audience, discuss the audience's needs, and explore ways to meet them. Of course there's more to it than that—and if you've never done it before, the idea of speaking to larger groups can seem daunting. But you CAN learn to do it. These tips will get you started.

1. Investigate the Audience
You wouldn't pitch a new client without trying to learn her likes and dislikes, who she's worked with before, etc. The same holds true for an audience: The more you know, the better. So talk to whoever organized the speech. Eyeball the organization's annual report. Ask around. Google them. You know what to do!

2. Find Your Best Message
Now that you know who you're talking to, what is the most important thing you want them to take away from your speech? Assume that you only get one thing, and make it count! Finding the right "key message" is 80% of the work of speechwriting. Once you know what the big point is, everything else will fall into place—from the smaller ideas that support your message to the way you open and close your speech. Just remember, a big point should feel BIG. Look at the difference between "Let's take a booth at the trade show" and "Taking a booth at the trade show will raise our profile and expose thousands of new customers to our products." They're both key messages, but only one has heft.

3. Write Out Your Remarks
There's no other way to make sure that you're saying what you mean. I know that sounds strange: Why can't you just jot down a few bullet points that say what you mean? Probably because bullet points are not sufficiently precise—and if you write your first draft in bullet points, you won't sound precise either. So start with full sentences. You can always migrate to bullet points later.

4. Use the Magic Pronoun ("You")
Your actions and accomplishments aren't the point here; it's what you can do for the people in your audience. So talk about their needs, their struggles, their solutions. Every time you replace the words I, me or my with you and your, you're demonstrating that they can benefit from doing business with you.

5. Practice Like a Demon
It's probably possible to practice too much—but try telling that to Michael Phelps (11-12 training sessions per week)! Usually when a speaker says, "I'm afraid if I practice I'll get stale," what they really mean is, "I'm afraid to practice because I don't do this well." Well of course you don't do it well—you haven't PRACTICED yet! Come on, let's get going here!

6. Use the "Starbucks Strategy"
Once you're up in front of an audience, practice time is over! Now it's time to forget about what you're trying to accomplish, and focus on connecting with them. Pick someone who looks friendly and make eye contact. Share your first point with them. Pick someone else and tell them your next thought. Pretend you're hanging out at the local coffee shop, just talking to some people. Just talk to them.

7. Ask Them to Do Something!
I ask all my clients what they want the audience to do differently, and they often say, "Oh, I just want them to listen." This is almost never true. Unless you are the Dalai Lama, you have an agenda. (Hey, even he has one...) Do you want them to sign up for a free consult? Contribute to a charity walk? Refer their friends and colleagues to you? Whatever you want, ASK for it! Asking greatly increases the chances of getting!

My Key Message: Public speaking is the ultimate "on the job training" experience—you just can't learn it without doing it. So stop avoiding this powerful way to attract new customers and promote your small business. Instead, use these 2 Truths and 7 Tips to start becoming a GREAT public speaker—today!

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Comment on this article

  • Dan McComb
    Posted by Dan McComb, Seattle, Washington | Sep 28, 2008

    Fantastic post, Jezra. Virtually everyone who is running a business is an expert at something, and has something to share, that someone would benefit from hearing.

    And the simple act of getting out there and saying it puts you on the road to being seen as an expert.

    I've been doing a lot more public speaking recently, and one of the things I've slowly been realizing is that practice really does work. I've found that the act of spending half a day putting a power point presentation together (instead of flying through it in an hour) results in me delivering a much more memorable and helpful workshop, based on audience feedback. It's a no-brainer, I guess, but worth repeating: you really can do it, and preparation helps you do it well.

  • Deidre Rienzo
    Posted by Deidre Rienzo, Tappan, New York | Sep 28, 2008

    Jezra, I really enjoyed your article. Sometimes, when we think of public speaking, we picture outselves standing in front of thousands of people we don't know! And that's scary! But the tips you've laid out make public speaking seem much more doable for the small business owner. You don't have to start out speaking in front of thousands of people- you can start small. I like the Starbucks strategy. If you're just focusing on one person at a time instead of everyone at once, it makes the process easier. It's nice to know that good public speakers are made, not born, as you said! Thanks!

  • Kristina Nunn
    Posted by Kristina Nunn, Portland, Or., Oregon | Sep 28, 2008

    I agree with you although I have not been practicing enough before a speech, I can say that not practicing hasn't been working too well! I joined a Toastmasters group last year and it really helps to have a safe environment in which to grow your skills with others who will give you honest feedback and are there to learn as well. Thanks so much for your great tips Jezra! I am newly inspired to book another presentation.

  • Judy Dunn
    Posted by Judy Dunn, Seattle & Renton, Washington | Sep 28, 2008

    Excellent advice, Jezra. I particularly like #2. The big idea. In some copywriting circles, its called The Golden Thread, the thing that is woven throughout and ties everything together.

    I will have to say that the longer you stay away from public speaking, the more difficult it can be, I used to breeze through the graduate levels education classes I taught in Spokane, but it's because I had the practice, week after week. They actually became enjoyable. Now I have to force myself to get up there and make a presentation because I've been behind a computer writing for 15 years!

    I'm going to save your article so I can refer to it when I need to. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.

  • Phil Greely
    Posted by Phil Greely, Seattle, Washington | Sep 28, 2008

    I agree with your article and some of the posts that practice is very high up on the list for preparing to speak in a public forum. I took a public speaking class way back during my days at UW...and I would give my speech or talk 10+ times before the real thing. That way I can focus on connecting with my audience and less on the words I'm saying.

  • Bradley Chrysler
    Posted by Bradley Chrysler, Serving Snohomish, Skagit, Island and Whatcom Counties, Washington | Sep 28, 2008

    Hi Jezra, Great post, and all true. Thanks for the encouragement. Everyone can do this.

  • Jezra Kaye
    Posted by Jezra Kaye, Brooklyn, New York | Sep 29, 2008

    Thank you all for those wonderful comments! I'm wondering if anyone besides me likes to practice in front of a mirror? I know it makes some people self-conscious, but I like to be able to check for posture, eye contact (yes, with myself!) and any nervous habits that might be creeping in. Another great place to practice is in your car (with the windows closed). No one else can hear you trying out new stuff, and the resonance is pretty good. What else do other people do to practice that's working well for them?

  • Ilise Benun
    Posted by Ilise Benun, Hoboken, New Jersey | Sep 30, 2008

    You make it sound so easy, Jezra, and I know it is because I've been doing it for a while. But often, when I suggest to clients that they consider speaking as a marketing tool -- well, let's just say it takes a lot of persuading.

    But speaking is my number one marketing tool. It really gives people a chance to see who and how I am as a human being -- which is crucial in our almost completely virtual, Twitter-enabled world.

    Excellent article!

  • Pamela Miles
    Posted by Pamela Miles, New York, New York | Sep 30, 2008

    This is a GREAT article. I do a lot of public speaking and teaching, helping Reiki practitioners to develop themselves as professionals. This is the clearest, most encouraging expression I've ever seen of what is needed to succeed as a speaker. i would like to offer this to my students as a resource.

  • Jezra Kaye
    Posted by Jezra Kaye, Brooklyn, New York | Sep 30, 2008

    Pamela, I'd love for you to share this with your students.

    And Ilise, you're so right about the easy/hard dynanic. Like so many new things, it feels hard... until one day it doesn't!

    One way for "newbies" to get started is to pair up with a colleague who's a more experienced public speaker. If you're willing to book the "gig," more experienced speakers are often happy to come onboard. It's a great trade, because they get more exposure than they otherwise would have, and you get a chance to speak in public without having to carry the entire presentation.

  • Krista Dunk
    Posted by Krista Dunk, Olympia, Washington | Sep 30, 2008

    Hi Pamela, I'm taking a public speaking class right now and many of your tips are right on with what the class has learned so far! I especially like your 'practice out loud' and 'ask the audience to do something' tips. Both often neglected... Thanks! Krista Dunk NWweddingplace.com

  • Dani Nordin
    Posted by Dani Nordin, Watertown, Massachusetts | Sep 30, 2008

    Great article! It's interesting how much writing your "speech" down beforehand does help. I always write way too much in the first draft of a presentation. Then, I spend an hour or two editing it down to just the key points, and then to a couple of key talking points. When you try to tackle too much at once, you end up diluting the overall message.

  • Pamela Miles
    Posted by Pamela Miles, New York, New York | Sep 30, 2008

    I completely agree, Dani. Writing really helps the digestion process. If we haven't fully digested--and metabolized--our material, how can we hope that our audience will?

  • Stacy Karacostas
    Posted by Stacy Karacostas, Seattle, Washington | Sep 30, 2008

    Hi Jezra, What a timely article...It seems public speaking is on a lot of our minds lately (I just posted a podcast to my blog about ways to get started speaking a couple weeks ago...and so did my friend Nancy Juetten!)

    I'm lucky in that I was trained as an Environmental Educator in college and spent years delivering talks on everything under the sun. So moving into speaking with my current business was a no-brainer and something I love.

    You've offered some terrific tips here, and I thought I'd share a few more for folks who are stuck trying to get started...

    1) Practice does indeed make perfect. But it helps most when you can review yourself from the audience perspective. So I regularly video and audio record my presentations both while practicing and during the actual talk. Then I go back and listen or watch to see what I can improve. We did a lot of this in school and you'll be amazed to discover the nervous ticks you have that you didn't know about.

    2) For some folks, the big problem is fear of standing up in front of people. So rather than start out with live speaking, consider delivering a teleseminar instead. Or even interviewing someone else via teleseminar. It's a terrific way to ease into speaking in public since it feels more like a one-on-one conversation.

    3) Just do it! Don't get so stuck in preparing your talk that you never actually promote or deliver it. In fact, I recommend promoting your topic and getting booked to speak before you get the whole thing put together. That way you don't waste a bunch of time putting together a perfect talk that no one is every going to hear.

    You can find more helpful recommendations on getting started in public speaking on my blog at: Find it here: http://marketing-junkie.com/soyouwannabe_aspeaker/

    Here's to your future success!

  • Michael Wilson
    Posted by Michael Wilson, Sterling, Virginia | Sep 30, 2008

    Well done! Good follow-up comments also. I've always had the most success when I write it out...notes on a napkin never worked well! The clarity of thought and, I think, another method of reinforcement are probably both important results of actually writing down what you intend to say.

  • Jezra Kaye
    Posted by Jezra Kaye, Brooklyn, New York | Oct 01, 2008

    Great comments, all. Stacy, I wasn't able to follow your link, a drag 'cause what you had to say above is great.

    Michael, the "scribbling on a napkin" thing only worked for me once--when I was asked to give a wedding toast (30 seconds' warning!) and there was nothing else to write on. :-)

    Dani, like you, I spend most of my editing time cutting and simplifying, cutting and simplifying. Who was it that said, "Forgive me for writing such a long letter; I didn't have time to write a shorter one?" So true!

  • Andy Ciordia
    Posted by Andy Ciordia, Charlotte, North Carolina | Oct 01, 2008

    Practice just makes perfect.

    As a photographer I tell those I photograph if you want to know the secret of being captured well it's just practicing what you want to see and then when you need to do it, you recall the feeling and you set the pose.

    A model is (and many actors are) good at their job because they recall emotion asked for and put it into play. People aren't good at being worked with because it's unthought of, unpracticed.

    Mirrors are great tools. See who you want to see, feel how you look when you look your best. Remember, recall.

    People forget how you can be anything with practice. The trick is sticking with it and making time for it. The old personal trainer in me can attest to the 3 month rule. If you can survive a change of lifestyle for 3 months you can continue for life. 80% of clients don't last 3 months.

    Anyhow, good article. You've given me even more reason to add practice into any speaking engagement. Then I can forget the dialog and just focus on the audience. The rest plays out so natural it's kismet. Good stuff.

    -andy

  • Leta Laborde, DC
    Posted by Leta Laborde, DC, Bothell, Washington | Oct 01, 2008

    Excellent article. I am pulling together a website and I find it a similar process. I am somewhere between "Best Message" and "Just Do It"... Anyone that enjoyed this would do well to check out Jezra's blog as well.

  • Karrie Kohlhaas
    Posted by Karrie Kohlhaas, Seattle, Washington | Oct 02, 2008

    #7 is crucial. I sometimes hear clients say that they "already tried" hosting events or spoke to groups and it "didn't work" but then when I ask what their call to action was, well, they have no idea. So how could their audience know?

    And practicing! Yes! We build and strengthen actual neural pathways in our brain when we repeat anything. "Practice makes perfect" isn't just a cliché; It's a physiological/neurological phenomena.

    I have another trick to add: Arrive at the event early so you have a chance to talk to those first few people who enter and connect with them. I notice that speakers seem much more uptight and disconnected from their audience when they arrive to a full room of eyes. I suggest asking 1-2 people to show up early as "helpers" so that you have that built-in connection time and remove some of that audience-speaker barrier.

    Thanks for the article and advice! I'll keep it in mind for future talks and workshops.

    Loved Stacy's additional comments as well.

  • Jezra Kaye
    Posted by Jezra Kaye, Brooklyn, New York | Oct 02, 2008

    This dialogue is adding so much richness and new learning. Andy's 3-month rule! Karrie's comment on the neural pathways that are created through practice... and your great tip about arriving early to connect with event participants. These are all wonderful ideas! And Leta, thanks for your support and good luck with your website!

  • Nancy Juetten
    Posted by Nancy Juetten, Bellevue, Washington | Oct 03, 2008

    And here's one more tip.

    Always ask for audience feedback when you speak. One way is to provide audience evaluation forms on every chair. Another way is to invite audience members to share their comments with you after the fact by email.

    When you earn favorable comments, you can post them to your website or blog so program directors can "get to yes" faster when considering you for a place on their speaker schedule.

    When you earn constructive comments, you can learn from them and improve for the next time.

    Either way, it's all good!

    Thanks for a great article.

  • Kathy Miller
    Posted by Kathy Miller, Seattle, Washington | Oct 03, 2008

    Wow, what a great article Jezra! I've been avoiding public speaking for years, I even managed to get through college without taking the mandatory speaking class. Now that I have my own business, I've been facing my fears about public speaking! I've joined a networking group and find that when I make a presentation, it is fun and helpful to ask the audience questions. Your article is incredibly helpful; I especially like the tips about connecting with the audience and practice, practice, practice. It makes sense that if I don't practice, the process will be more fearful because of the unknown factor. I have a workshop scheduled for later this month, I'm going to begin practicing right away. Thanks so much!! You won't believe how helpful this information is. Regards, Kathy

  • Nicole Gainey
    Posted by Nicole Gainey, seattle, Washington | Oct 03, 2008

    Nice article and very timely, as a Massage Therapist I am definetely most comfortable speaking to people one on one. I just passed on a speaking engagement out of fear, now maybe I'll read your article a few more times and call them back. Thanks!